Flyers
by hisDesire
"SUBMISSIVES AND SLAVES THAT ARE FLYERS ARE UNABLE TO MAKE DECISIONS IN PLAY TIME. AND THEY CAN NOT SEEM TO BE ABLE USE THEIR SAFEWORD. A FLYER DEPENDS ON THE DOMINANT TO KNOW WHEN IT IS TIME TO STOP." The reason for submissive not using their safeword is not because they are much tougher or anything like that. It's just it never occurs to then to do so. There are two types of flyers; one is natural flyer, the other is one that can be brought to the point of flying and then taken over the edge. Not everyone can experience flying. Some say a sensual or heavy session can take them over the edge. Or even a heavier corporal scene may cause a submissive to fly. As we know each person is different what works with one, wont always work with another.It is like driving a car you need to learn how to drive it is the same with submissive you need to learn what buttons to push on them to make them fly. "PLEASE REMEMBER FLYING CAN'T BE FORCED".
It is like everything else when the elements are right it will happen.
The Possible Elements: Some theories on flying or what they feel it is, is this: Some feel it can be a cosmic connection, chemical reactions or even emotional overload. Some say it is mystical or even spiritual states as in an out of body experience so there is many theories on why someone fly's. Some feel that flying is like an altered state of consciousness. And by using sexual or erotic means and induces flying. Some even feels that form of meditation during a session will help in flying. Some say that the use of Buddhism or Hinduism techniques as in breathing techniques. Also can help the submissive to go over the edge and to fly. It is believe that a person can be erotically stimulated into a coma like state. But still being able to feel the sensations of the sessions. Some feel that long ago it was called erotocomatose lucidity. And some believe it is the same as in flying. No one can really say for sure if that is true. Most those who do fly its helps to have Trust, confidence, sexual attraction. And the connection between the players and a wildness to be open to what can happen in the session. You must be relaxed and both should enjoy the session. And if during the session the dominant should gently and slowly push the buttons of the submissive and could cause the submissive to fly or not. If the submissive does start to fly the Dominant should watch the submissive closely. For the submissive will depend on you to know how far to take them. Also some Dominants say they seem to have unexplainable connection with the submissive as they start to fly. Some submissive's have said that they feel as if someone was directing their flight and that is a wonderful feeling. It is a wonderful feeling that passes between the Dominant and submissive.
After Care for a Dominant and Flyer: You need to stay by her side for you are her only link with reality; she needs you to be with her and not to break contact or leave. For it can be very devastating for the submissive. Sometimes it can take up to 20 or 30 minutes for her to drift back to earth. And don't be surprised if she remains fuzzy for hours it is also not unheard have for submissive to feel exhilarated for days after flying. While she is still in orbit try to make her comfortable. You don't want her to experience any strain to defuse the free feeling of flying. Untie her or not as you see fit and see that she warm and safe. Her sense of well being relies largely on that mysterious mental connection to you. But please don't interfere with her voyage by asking her it she's OK. People act different ways when they fly. Some can tremble violently or appear to be unresponsive. She's just ping pinging around the galaxy feeling all kinds of swell stuff. Or they could just drift off as peacefully as lambs. This is a time for you to be brave and patient; she will be back with you soon. And better then new.
I am a natural flyer: It like I have left my body and have taken to the sky. It is like looking down on myself and I can hear things but it like in a fog. As I drift up higher in flight I find my self in my own private place that is so peaceful that it is hard for me to come down when it is time for Master to reel me in. I have to say this is the best I can tell you how it feels for me to fly. All I can say is that is really wonderful to soar through the stars. It can be one of the most amazing feelings you can have you never want it to end. But again not all can fly so don't feel bad if you can't for sub space is also a wonderful place too. desire (Hisdesire202)
Note From Master DarkLord Handling a flier is a unique experience when the Dominant/Master is controlling the flight of his sub/slave He will experience an almost out of body feeling as well he or she may even feel a heighten of senses and experience a form of euphoria. BUT at all time the Dominate/Master MUST REMAIN IN CONTROL of the session if you lose control or feel your self losing control stop step back for a second for if you lose control you will lose or Damage your sub/slave not only physically but mentally as well as possibly spiritually . Flying can also be a very spiritual experience a joining of the Dominate/Master and his/her sub/slave in to one being sharing there feelings in the flight. When the session is over curl up with your sub/slave so that you both can feel the connection. But above all don't leave her for if you do she will experience the breaking of the connection and it will feel like being lost in space and time for them and can do damage to them psychologically. In all my experience there is nothing likes flying with your slave but don't be upset if your slave doesn't fly It can take time for them to reach that level of sensory experience, when they do fly it is like nothing you will ever experience again plus it becomes a drug to them once they fly they want to fly more and more. Master James (DarkLord202)
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