
March 15,
2006
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Just Some Views... by Tatu
Disclaimer: This newsletter is just a collection
of my ramblings. It is not intended to be authoritative in any way. Just
reflections of my explorations. If anyone finds it interesting or helpful
for me that is a plus. I don't know it all and stay far away from
the elitists who think they do. I am no Master of anything, just a student
on a journey who loves to explore life, art, relationships and hopefully
will one day learn to at least be the Master my own soul and the loving leader
of another self empowered one who wishes to walk along side
me.
Greetings everyone and welcome to our 2nd online edition of the D/s ARts
Newsletter. After about 5 years of sending out newsletters via email, last
month I decided to archive them here. There is no set publishing cycle. It's
just when the mood hits me, I have time and inspiration.
I like to write, to think and be challenged with learning new things and
sharing with others. I like to hear the ideas and discoveries of others.
Hope you enjoy. Any comments email me at
Energy Blocks
Recently, I evidently got dehydrated and became very ill. ....eye-ball
splitting headaches, dizziness.... the tip off was the dry eye sockets. As
a result sleep and eating patterns got all messed up for a while. The body
will remind us that it has basic needs of water and nourishment, and if you
don't take care of these, it rebels. I eventually got better, but it
took some time.
Also related to overall health is an understanding that our bodies
contain wonderful spiritual and physical energy movements within us. From
time to time we can get down physically due to what is sometimes called "energy
blocks".
We should not only take care of ourselves with physical
nourshiment but also in terms of our energy health by paying attention to
what our body is saying . We do this by getting regular body scans. No I
am not saying go to the clinic once a month. I am saying we need to perform
a body scan on ourselves, an energy self assessment.
I am talking about understanding and assessing balance. When
the balance of energies is not what it should be... the yin and yang will
speak to us.
More and more people in our Japanese Rope world are becoming
aware of these energies and how wonderful they can be in finding the
connection with one's own inner pleasures while tied in the ropes. The
whole concept of "Nawaikido", involves how the rope bottom becomes
spiritually connected to self while immobilized and made to be still by the
ropes, and when the Top perceives how he guides his captive on the jounrey
of pleasure with the process of nawa-kesho... applying the rope like
a cosmetic art. The rope draws that attention to the body and we have an
opportunity to connect with those wonderful energies in a very pleasurable
way.
I have also discovered how rope can bring out some very
un-pleasureable responses due to some negative energies moving in a person.
Those people will go ape on you. They need to do a body scan and check their
energy patterns as the rope forced them to do when they were not truly ready
for that kind of soul introspection.
So how do we do these energy scans? First it takes time.
One needs to set aside time to focus on self. Cut everything else out
and give full attention to the physical and spiritual you. Odd how we in
the west know with our brains with great scientific precision so much about
the world we live in yet in reality so little about our own selves.
Start with simply getting into a comfortable position. I suggest
lying down and simply breathe. Do a few cleansing breaths. Perhaps pretend
like you are in one of those imaging machines at the doctors office. Begin
at the top of your head and imagine a beam of light slowly working its way
down your body. Take is slow inch by inch and feel that portion of the body
as if it were being illuminated by the scanning light.
I know it sounds like a sci-fi movie, but
visualizing such will help you stop and focus on what is happening with
your body.
As you breathe, think or visualize the bringing in of positive
energy and as you exhale think of moving out the negative energies.
There are ancient arts associated with doing this, such as Tai
Chi and Chi Kong, that make us aware of these energies and that we need to
be very careful about what we take into our bodies. Sometimes we need to
insulate ourselves from those who are filled with great negative energies,
lest their negatives begin to move in us and take over our spirits. My
Shiatsu Therapist, Master White, reminds me of this all the time. Sometimes
my friends say, let's go to the club and for me, I sense somehow I am just
not into it. That there is something not good for me on that given ocassion....
so I go home to rest and relax... focus on me.
I remember once literally being overcome by a simple brief encounter
with the negative energies of another. My world seemed to come to a slow
stop. The room began to spins and I fell into what I later discovered
was a 30 minute sleep.
One has to realize that there are "energy vampires" out there,
and often the best remedy is to simply keep space between them and ourselves,
especially if you are new to understanding all of this. Some people are
such agitators and carry such negative energy around, that they should become
anathema to you. In other words it is best that you just act as though they
do not exist.
So as you do your body scan, you may notice all kinds of things
happening: a warmth or coolness, some report changes in colors. We may feel
some kind of guidance emanating from our souls. You may come upon areas that
feel clogged up or impassable. What is happening is that your body is speaking
to you. Listen. Focus your thoughts, your breathing into that area.
Move that bad energy out and replace is with good.
When I was a young man dealing with how to master my own
mind, I discovered it frustrating in
the area
of learning how to stop negative thoughts or thinking. The more I tried to
not think about something negative, the more I thought those thoughts.
Finally I realized that you cannot simply say to yourself "stop thinking
those negative thoughts", because it only made you focus on them more. The
solution was that I had to replace the negative thoughts and energy with
positive.
As I have moved through life, I have learned the same thing
with people. I have been confused at times when certain people did what I
perceived as negative, irrational or illogical. The more I focused on
trying to bridge the gap with that person, the more frustrating it became.
So in the end I just had to walk away from all their negative crap and refocus
on the positive for me. What I learned is that there are some people who
are true friends and will communicate in truth with you. There are others
who cannot handle truth as their lives have been built upon one lie over
another and so as defense mechanisms they put up walls of negative
energy to avoid dealing honestly with life. The sad truth is
there is nothing you can do about it. So walk away. Invest your energies
in the positive, honest and caring.
Our body will work with us in all of this. It will talk to you,
and it will be truthful. Sometimes it is telling us to slow down or
even stop until the appropriate healing can take place. Other times
it is telling us to move away from certain negative unhealthy spirits or
influences.
Be quiet and listen.

Continued Studies
by Tatu
.....Coming in April & May
"A Comparative Study of East vs West Rope Art Styles"
"Study on the Origins of Japanese Rope Bondage Terminology"
Japanese
Art
UKIYO-E
The Pictures of the Floating World
by Tatu
There is an entire artistic genre' that exploded during the Tokugawa
period (1615-1868) known as Ukiyo-e produced with a technique of wood block
printing. This was the 250 year period when the Tokugawa shoguns ruled and
Edo became the center of power. This was a time when Japan was extremely
isolated from the rest of the world and the artistic side to culture exploded
dominated with teahouses, geisha, kabuki theatre & courtesans. Many of
these pictures were seen in advertisements, or posters about a new play,
or a teahouse. Some of the images seen were most likely popular actors or
famous geisha of their time.
Originally, this was an art for the common people, the lower classes. The
word itself first refered to the simple or lowly life. Later it came to mean
something like "a transitory life of pleasure". It was this art form
that gave rise to the first erotic images of Japanese Rope, the Japanese
Style of tattoo and Shunga.
They were customized pictures, hand drawn on screens and scrolls. Woodblock
printing goes back to the Heian Period (794-1192) another time in Japanese
history marked by unprecedented peace under the rule of the Heian dynasty.
Culture flourished.
Shunga is Japanese art depicting explicit sex acts, masturbation, orgies,
etc.
Woman Captive in Rope
Here is a image of one I own. It was a gift to me by some friends, in Michigan.
I have had it looked at my two experts. It has yet to be identified,
both agree it was from the mid 1800's. It may be a Kabuki Theatre advertisement
rendering and may be a male actor dressed as a woman.
Click on the image to see a larger version.
Man Getting Tattoo
I just purchased this one. I am very excited. "Man Getting Tattoo"
by Utagawa Kuniyoshi (1797-1861). Considered one of the greatest Japanese
print artists.
SHUNGA
Sometime in the 15th Century there also developed a more sexually explicit
art called "shunga" which means "spring picture". They were technically "sex
manuals" that depicted very explicit love scenes, often with exaggerated
genitals.
There are thousands of these printed images in existence today. Here is an
example Click Image to see larger version.
They were among the earliest of "ukiyyo-e" (wood block printing).

"Fumi no kiyogaki"
Woman masturbating with kitchen utensil with a man looking on, c.1800
by.Eiri (Chokosai Eisho) a pupil of Eishi. Very little is known about this
artist..
Floating World Art also contributed to the expansion of the Art of Tattoo
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Irezumi is the Japanese word for the large traditional visible tattoos that
covers large parts of the body. Irezumi has a very long history going back
some 1700 years. During the Edo Period Tattooing was captured in this art
form as it was used by professions such as firemen, as well as courtesans
in order to increase their attractiveness for their customers. Tattoos
were also used to mark and identify criminals in the early 1700's. They
used to amputate ears and noses before that.
"Tattooed Samurai" by Utagawa Kuniyoshi (1797-1861)
(image right)

Tattoos also became popular among the masterless samurai or ronin. Eventually
they organized and became what today are referred to as "yukuza".
"Samurai with Tattoo and Sword"
by Kunisada (1786-1864)
(Image left)
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"Girl Having Her Arm Tattooed"
by Taiso Yoshitoshi (1839-1892)
(Image right)
Best known for designs of Japan's past and of women caught in typical moments
of daily life. Biting her handkerchief in distress, a girl is having her
arm tattooed. The gesture echoes (shunga), pornographic prints, where women
shown biting cloth or tissue are stifling cries of passion.
Claire Adams - Local Fetish & Bondage
Model
.... she done real
good
Claire
Adams is a beautiful and well known model in our rope and fetish scene. She
is formerly from my neck of the woods here in Southeast Florida.
I casually knew of Claire from her days here at our local clubs and through
lifestyle friends Master Ray and Sarah at the start up of the highly successful
www.shadowplayers.com
. I was deeply humbled at Shibaricon 2005 when she attended one of my classes
and came up to me and said, do you remember me? Then we talked
about some of the old days and mutual acquaintances. Of course everyone knows
Claire now. The truth is I am somewhat shy around large groups of people
and usually just lay back and wait for others to break the ice
with me. So I just watch and absorbe the beautiful energy of others.
This young star is a bundle of incredible energy.
Maybe one day I'll have the honor of having this bundle of sweetness in my
ropes for a scene.
Recently she did a Japanese Rope Suspension on Peter Sarsgaard in the March
issue of
Vanity Fair magazine. See page
288. Peter Sarsgaard, is an actor if you don't know the name.. Flightplan,
Garden State, Kinsey...
Also in the issue are some sexy pics of Scarlett Johansson, Keira Knightley
as well as Angelina Jolie naked !!!!
Here's a link to Claire's Live Journal where you can see the pic from vanity
fair as well as others.
http://claireadams.livejournal.com
Here is a link to her webpage:
http://www.clairebondage.com
Congrats Claire.. see you at Shibaricon!
"Arresting Images".....
Image by
Lochai
Seems my fetish photographer brother, Lochai, almost got himself into some
trouble recently. He
writes in
his live journal,
"Well yesterday was an interesting day of shooting.
Went down to Halouver Beach in Miami a NUDE beach. (this comes into play
later in the story) I met two of my beautiful models there Idelsy & Jolie.
We started off just off the parking lot at the tunnel that leads to the beach.
Some sexy seethru clothing & a great long tunnel....
...I did have one nude man walk over & state "she's tied up" I said yes...
he said "but you can't do that" & I asked why, he said that this is a
family beach & I can't tie up someone on it. I asked why not & he
said "because it is wrong". Well I told him that I am shooting art on a public
nude beach & that he is not allowing me to use my given right of freedom
of speech. I mentioned that she is wearing more clothing then most on the
beach & because he does not like bondage does not mean I cannot do a
rope art shoot. Well he raised a big stink & every one around us watching
told him to bug off....."
Take a look at his Live Journal for the full story and some great photos
he took on the beach.
http://lochai.livejournal.com/16490.html
"The Notorious Bettie
Page"
The
long awaited release of the new movie about Bettie Page is scheduled for
release . It opens in New York, LA and San Francisco on April 14, 2006 and
in full nationwide release in late April or early May.
Plot Summary: Page was the ultimate girl-next door, and one of the most popular
Playboy centerfolds. Page challenged the conservative 1950s, posing as a
fierce dominatrix and earning both a cult underground following and Senate
Committee investigation on juvenile delinquency, essentially a witch-hunt
orchestrated by a senator from her home state of Tennessee bent on exploiting
her as a stepping stone to the White House. At the height of her popularity,
Bettie disappeared. But in 1979 and 1982, Page (a diagnosed schizophrenic)
tried to stab several people to death and was institutionalized.
View Trailer Here:
http://www.apple.com/trailers/picturehouse/thenotoriousbettiepage/trailer/
Movie Night anyone???? We did this for the opening of Memoirs
of a Geisha in December, so if you live in south Florida and would like to
join us for a special nite out email me at
In celebration of this movie debut in April, I am hosting with my Shibari
South Florida Group a "Bettie Page, Damsel in Distress" party on Saturday
April 15, 2006. This is going to be a very special night, filled with
surprises.
Stills from the movie:
Shibaricon is coming May 26 -
29 (Chicago)
If
there is one thing I could say to anyone interested in rope. Don't miss this
event. This is our rope homecoming each year. I was honored to be the keynote
speaker in 2005 to about 400 registered participants. 2006 promises to be
ever bigger and greater. For more details see the Shibaricon website at:
http:/www.shibaricon.com
Subshevah wrote a couple of retrospectives for Shibaricon 2005 and 2004,
which was published at Doms view: See:
http://www.thedomsview.com/Vol6/I4/review4.htm
or
at the and at the D/s ARts site as well:
http://ds-arts.com/shevah/ShibariCon2_shevah.html
Here is the review she wrote for Shibaricon 2004:
http://ds-arts.com/shevah/ShibariCon1_shevah.html
Kewl Online Videos I
found:
Mad TV's Tribute to Memoirs of a Geisha ..... this is hilarious
!!!!
Urban Ninja ... this is really kewl, a must see..
Gisele Bundchen - Animated Tattoo This is absolutely
lovely. Just wish the video quality was better.
Sexy Asian Girl - Disturbingly Sexy funny
Asian Face Slap
CSI New York - Robo Spanker
Konomiya, Japan's Naked Festival, February 2006
I have set up a
Memoirs
of a Geisha page at my personal website. Links to film trailers and two
long A&E specials about the making of the film. Enjoy.
"Occupied" by
Lochai
I am pleased to pass along
the fantastic news that that our good friend, Lochai, has published his first
book entitled "Occupied" is now available. If you don't know him
personally, you have probably seen him at Fetish Factory or Shibaricon snapping
away his fetish images.
This book is a collection of erotic bathroom images... perfect for your bathroom
reading....
There is some rope in there too.
Lochai is a great rope artist and photographer and I am proud to call
him my South Florida
Rope brother. As most of you know he is also a co-moderator of our Adult
Rope Art Yahoo
Group.
You can see his work and information about how to purchase his book at his
site:
http://www.kirinawa.com
He is also participating in Traveling Erotic Art Show:
http://travelingeroticartshow.com/index.html
Last month we found for your the "Original
Kimono Girl".
Well here he is......... The Original Kimono Boy
Yes, after
painstaking research. Hours and hours of intensive labor, googling my brain
out. I finally found him, the original kimono
boy.
"On February 11, 1975, NBC gave Lorne Michaels a call. NBC was looking for
a show to fill the 11:30 to 1:00 am slot on Saturday nights. The show was
to be directed to the younger audience. Michaels agreed to do it as long
as he was guaranteed it would be live. Now it was up to Lorne to find a cast
to make his show work. Some of the first hired were Chevy Chase, Dan Aykroyd,
Gilda Radner, and Garrett Morris. Lorne was urged to hire John Belushi, but
was reluctant because he thought John was too loud, too hard , and too
self-centered. But, John did manage to get an audition for the show.
John had been practicing a mute Japanese samurai character. His only sounds
were grunts and phony but enthusiastic sounding Japanese phrases.
....
"
Read
the entire tribute at:
http://www.bbring.com/snl.html
A Report on Hatsume Fair
This year I spent alot of time enjoying the martial arts demos and of course
the Taiko Drumming performances. I have put some images from my visit to
Hatsume
Here.
Here are a couple of video short there of the drumming.
Video
Clip #1
Low Quality 15 sec clip
Fushu Daiko
February 25, 2006
Video
Clip #2
Low Quality 15 sec clip
Fushu Daiko
February 26, 2006
I actually went both days this year and loved it. I had friends come from
across the state and locals like Lochai and janice and bina, etc... made
it out for a great time.
Here's where I will be teaching Rope in the upcoming months:
2006 Workshops - So Far...
Shibari South Florida (Ft
Lauderdale, FL)
March 18, 2006
*** Bondage Basics by Lochai followed by a SILK Social
http://www.ds-arts.com/SSF
Shibari South Florida (Ft
Lauderdale, FL)
April 15, 2006
*** This will be Bettie Page Damsel in distress struggle bondage night, led
by Tatu
http://www.ds-arts.com/SSF
Beat Me In St. Louis (St. Louis,
Missouri)
April 21-23, 2006
http://www.stl3.com/events/bmsl/home
* Courses TBA
Shibari South Florida (Ft
Lauderdale, FL)
May 20, 2006
"Self Bondage" night
http://www.ds-arts.com/SSF
ShibariCon (Chicago, IL)
May 26-29, 2006
http://www.shibaricon.com
* Courses TBA
Orlando Bash (Orlando,
FL)
June 1-4, 2006
http://www.orlandobash.com
* Courses TBA
What's New at D/s ARts?
In the Academy section
http://www.ds-arts.com/academy
There are a couple of spanking videos that have been linked for your enjoyment.
Enjoy !!

(Image by Tatu)
Shibari South Florida /
SILK
http://www.ds-arts/SSF
In 2000, I started something I called "Shibari South Florida". We met
in my home for a while and have met periodically since. Our numbers grew
too large for my residence and so we have now ventured out into renting space
for our workshop and social gatherings. Our next workshop will be Saturday,
February 18, 2006 in Ft Lauderdale, Florida, followed by a social time we
have named "S. I. L. K." which stands for:
"Sensuous
Intimate
Loving
Kinbaku"
Or, Sadistic Intimate Lascivious Kink,
depends on our mood that night...
If you live in South Florida, and are interested in rope, please contact
us about future gatherings.
March 18th - "Bondage Basics" led
by Lochai followed by a
SILK party.. This
month everyone is encouraged to wear something silk, silk-like, asian fetish...
like kimono, haori, hakama, silk bra and panties, pvc fetish geisha....
April 15th -
Topic "Bettie Page Damsel in Distress" led
by Tatu. In celebration of the new movie "The Notorious Bettie
Page" due to be released in late April or early May, our group's theme will
be on western-styled struggle bondage. We will have one of Bettie Pages'
photographers with us that night.
May 20 - Rescheduled
- Topic "Self Bondage" Details coming.
"Erotic Ropes" for your Bondage
D/s ARts & Shibari South Florida has teamed up with Sir Michael of Erotic
Ropes in Chicago to provide a quality hemp rope product to the Florida
Community. Tatu will have 30' & 15' lengths of 6mm finished hemp rope
available at SSF and other South Florida events.
Hemp rope is the traditional material used in shibari; a Japanese form of
rope bondage. It is becoming more and more popular among bondage enthusiasts.
Hemp rope is strict yet soft, it holds knots tighter with less slippage and
it doesn't stretch. Erotic ropes are created from grade Romanian twisted
hemp. Twelve hours of work go into each piece of erotic rope. Each length
of rope is washed and then dried. The rope is then oiled, boiled, dried and
singed to remove stray fibers. This process is repeated three times by a
most loving rope slut so we can offer you the finest quality twisted hemp
for all your bondage perversions.

(Image by Tatu)
C.A.R.E. D/s ARts is also hosting a
page for the Cincinnati Area Rope Enthusiasts, which meets once a month for
what they "Rope Rendezvous". They have been having their maximum for the
space which is 25 and have had had to turn people away virtually every month.
This event is led by Master David of Kentucky and subshevah.
See:
http://www.ds-arts.com/shevah/CARE.html
subshevah... We are also hosting a page for
lifestylist and educator, subshevah. See her essays and teaching schedule
at:
http://www.ds-arts.com/shevah
Some interesting news articles:
Untying Shibari
The art of Japanese rope bondage.
by Lesley Bargar
Shibari and Photographs c. Master K
"Im running in circles on the lobby floor of Little Tokyos New
Otani Hotel. Im late, my shoes are too loud, and Im
sick-to-my-stomach nervous. Making my third round past the front desk, the
briefcase I havent used in nine months slapping at my side, I wonder
for the 18,000th time how the hell I ended up here, and why the hell I
havent backed out already.
What Im late for is a meeting with one of the nations experts
on the erotic art of Japanese rope bondage known to me at this point as Shiburi
[sic]-in five minutes I will know it as Shibari (to bind), or Kinbaku (to
bind tightly). This expert goes by the name of Master K-a fact
that alone has caused me extreme anxiety as I go over and over the casual
meeting scenario in my head, and whether I should address him coolly as just
Master or K. Both make me uneasy.
I am not a bondage person. I am not an S&M person. Well, I guess I
dont really know
I suppose I could be a bondage person. The closest
Ive ever come......"
To read the entire article go to:
http://www.laalternative.com/index.php/2006/03/10/untying-shibari/
Bondage Unbound
From Time Magazine
Growing numbers of Americans are experimenting with sadomasochistic sex.
But is it always safe and sane?
By John Cloud/Clayton
"It turns out that you call it "S and M" only if you don't do it or if you
experiment only occasionally with those handcuffs you keep hidden at the
back of the nightstand. If, on the other hand, you are seriously involved
in the sadomasochistic subcultureif, say, you have attended one or
more of the nation's 90 annual sadomasochistic events ("Beat Me in St. Louis,"
for instance) and own not only handcuffs but also a spanking bench, a flogger,
some paraffin wax, an unbreakable Pyrex dildo and various other
unmentionablesyou call it, simply, SM.
The linguistic distinction between S&M and SM may seem tiny, but the
pop-culture, peep-show version of S&M has little to do with the real
lives of those who practice SM (which is why sexologists who study sadomasochism
have now also adopted the shorter abbreviation). S&M is Madonna in kinky
outfits, Anne Rice chapters that run to the louche even a recent Dannon
ad featuring a woman in a French-maid uniform.
Such S&M imagery has become so common that our astonishment at Robert
Mapplethorpe's photographs of leather and pain 20 years ago now seems quaint.
Today you can watch Samantha on Sex and the City in virtually the same poses.
But those who practice sadomasochismincluding those halting dabblers
who tee-hee their way through spankings, hoping to paddle excitement into
their marriageknow it's still taboo. (After all, if it weren't, it
would lose its power to excite.) To reconcile the icons with the actual practice,
I spent several weeks recently talking to SM practitioners around the
U.S.in New York City and San Francisco, yes, but also in North Carolina
and New Mexico. Whether they were nervous novices or experienced dungeon
masters leading some of the nation's 250 SM organizations, virtually all
of them asked for anonymity. One man said he had lost a job when his boss
found directions to a bondage workshop in his office. Others said they would
be embarrassed if their families learned of their proclivities.
We live in a culture in which sadomasochism is everywherefrom Versace
billboards to at least a dozen college campuses where SM support groups have
been establishedbut somehow it remains unseen and unspoken, just beyond
the edge of respectability.
Given the silence, measuring SM's popularity is not a precise business,
especially since it blurs into the larger category of BDSM, or
bondage-discipline-sadomasochism. A 1990 Kinsey Institute report said researchers
estimate that 5% to 10% of Americans occasionally engage in SM sex. "The
lighter end of BDSM is penetrating bedrooms across America. It's restraint
on bedposts, it's spanking, it's fantasy playand it's all fairly common,"
says Barnaby Barratt, president-elect of the American Association of Sex
Educators, Counselors and Therapists. In his quarter-century of private practice
as a therapist in southeastern Michigan, Barratt says, "hundreds, if not
thousands" of married couples have told him they want to bind, paddle or
play teacher/pupil with each other.
Barratt and other therapists say that couples often hope that role playing
or nipple clamps or quick-release bondage will rev up their sex lives. "Many
people have this as part of reciprocal, consensual love relationships, and
in those cases, we assure them it's not a problem," says Eli Coleman, director
of the Program in Human Sexuality at the University of Minnesota. He also
makes the point that "there's an element of domination or submission or pain
involved in almost any sexual interaction. What sadomasochism does is take
these elements of eroticism further toward their extreme."
Some couples experiment a few times but return to what serious SM-ers call
"vanilla" sex. Others become more deeply involved in the SM scene; they use
SM props or fantasies every time they have sex. The scene has become so large
and varied that it encompasses the rich farrago of coupling practices known
as BDSM, which includes not only SMthe erotic enjoyment of inflicting
and/or receiving painbut also BD (bondage/discipline) and DS
(domination/submission). BD usually involves physical restraint and a
punishment/reward setup (say, Nurse Ratched with a patient). DS relationships
are often as emotional as they are carnal. Submissives relish transferring
authority over aspects of their lives to others; the submissive might allow
the dominant not only to tie her up but even to tell her when she must go
to sleep...."
Please go to the link that I posted for the rest of this article
http://www.time.com/time/2004/sex/article/bondage_unbound_growing01a.html
Sex toys stolen at erotic conference
JACKSONVILLE, Fla., March 14 (UPI) -- Thieves hit the Southeastern Erotic
Cultural Conference, taking about $1,600 in leather whips, electrical stimulation
devices and other sex toys.
A security guard at the Jacksonville, Fla., gathering found someone had broken
into a conference room early Sunday.
Three vendors said sex toys, which also included bondage suspension cuffs,
had been stolen, the Jacksonville (Fla.) Times-Union reported.
The Friday-through-Sunday conference included classes, erotic art shows and
performances as well as a Leather Pride party, the newspaper reported.
See Article
Here
Tie Me Up, Tie Me Down
"TOLEDO -- Is it a dirty movie, or a useful tool for education? That's the
on-going legal debate in
Defiance
where a teacher is out of the classroom -- and in hot water for showing a
film to her students.
The Spanish-language film in question is "Tie Me Up, Tie Me Down" which was
made in 1990. It stars a young Antonio Banderas as a man who's released from
a mental hospital, then goes in search of a porn star with whom he once had
sex. When they meet, he tries to win her love through bondage.
Megan Espen, who is on unpaid leave from Ayersville High School for showing
the film to her Spanish class, was indicted by a Defiance County grand jury
for pandering obscenity and disseminating harmful material. Espen's attorneys
have filed motions to dismiss the charges.
Espen's attorney, Jay Feldstein, said "we believe it's a very valid educational
component ......
........Both sides of the case will be argued in court on April 7th."
http://www.wtol.com/Global/story.asp?S=4571822&nav=menu34_25
She Wears Her Courage On Her Heart
After
surgeries failed to restore the breasts she lost to cancer, valley woman
heals her body and soul with art
Caption: Lily Ann Hainline shows the roses she had tattooed over the scars
left by her mastectomies and subsequent failed reconstruction efforts. Hainline
of Palm Desert, who is a breast cancer survivor, underwent nine surgeries
before turning to body art for healing.
K Kaufmann
The Desert Sun
March 9, 2006 March 9, 2006
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"People need to be healed in different ways, and I think in this case that's
what happened. There was a soul healing."
Lily Ann Hainline, breast cancer survivor
PALM DESERT - Lily Ann Hainline can't wait to show you her chest - in private.
The 61-year-old Sun City woman spent more than $30,000 on reconstructive
surgery as part of a 13-year-long recovery from breast cancer. All she got
was a chestful of scar tissue she could hardly stand to look at in the mirror.
Now, she has a swirling tattoo of red roses and a hummingbird on her chest,
and she can't stop looking - and smiling - at herself in any mirror that
happens to be handy.
"I'm stoked," Hainline said in a recent interview, during which she briefly
unbuttoned her blouse to show off the flowers and flitting hummingbird on
her otherwise flat chest. "I'm so happy to do this; to have the courage."
.....
....."I feel right now I have my beauty restored to me," she said, "and I
think that will last for a long time. It will last forever."
To read the entire article go
here:
I found some others on the internet who have traveled similar paths. Meet
Marcia and Pam. What inspiring courage these ladies all have.
US Senate Candidate Wants Death Penalty for
Homosexuals
March 10, 2006, 06:08 AM EST
TOLEDO -- Merrill Keiser, Jr., is a trucker by trade, and he's hoping his
next journey takes him all the way to Washington. His goal is a seat in the
US Senate, but first he has to make it through the primary that will determine
which Ohio Democrat will be the November ballot.
The Fremont man is causing some controversy with one of his beliefs. He tells
News 11 homosexuality should be a felony, punishable by death. "Just like
we have laws against murder, we have laws against stealing, we have laws
against taking drugs -- we should have laws against immoral conduct," Keiser
says.
Keiser has no political background. He says the only reason he's running
as a Democrat is because that's how he was registered the last time he voted.
Keiser will face Democrat Sherrod Brown in the May primary.
Read the whole story
here.
Inflatable sex dolls to fight Mexican
machismo
Thu Mar 9, 2006 01:02 AM ET
MEXICO
CITY (Reuters) - Mexico is deploying an army of inflatable sex dolls dressed
as office executives in a head-turning publicity campaign against workplace
harassment of women in the famously macho country.
Timed to coincide with International Women's Day on Wednesday, the advertisements
show sex dolls with staring eyes and gaping red mouths dressed in suits and
sitting at computers.
"No woman should be treated like an object. Sexual harassment is degrading
and it's a crime," says a voice-over at the end of a television ad, which
shows a man walking past one of the dolls and casually stroking her shoulder.
Machismo runs deep in Mexico......
To read the complete story, go
here.
Spanking scene voted sexiest moment
"A
spanking scene in the movie Secretary (Maggie Gyllenhaal and James
Spaker) has been named the sexiest moment in film.
The kiss between Jake Gyllenhaal (Maggie Gyllenhaal's little brother)
and Heath Ledger in the gay cowboy movie Brokeback Mountain came second.
Hollywood heart-throb George Clooney and star Jennifer Lopez take third place
for the movie Out Of Sight........"
To read the rest of this story, go
here.

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Gartman and Partner Found Guilty of Trafficking Obscenity
By: Mark Kernes
DALLAS -
It was a quick trial, lasting just five days from jury selection to the start
of deliberations, but early this afternoon, Clarence Thomas Gartman and partner
Brent Alan McDowell were found guilty of having shipped the video known as
BVW 24, ordered from their website forbiddenvideos.com, across state lines.
Read the full story
here:
THIS JUST IN:
Last month I told you about "gabriel". He is stationed just outside of Bagdad
and is doing well. Another lifestyler who is from south Florida will be headed
to Iraq soon, Steve aka Etienne. Please keep both of these gentlemen
in your thoughts and prayers.
Yesterday, I learned that my son-in-law will be headed to Iraq in July. We
all covet your prayers.
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